Five years from now it won't matter, but right now some people will think he's a manipulative pedophile and other will see you as a gold digger or suspect you have daddy issues. I'm not saying either is true, but that it's a stigma you'll have to deal with. Are you in community college because you're smart and skipped a bunch of grades or were you homeschooled and finished early or are you upgrading outside the usual channels for less than happy reasons?
Each of those scenarios has pretty different implications for you and your relationship but none of them are really good. My guess is that part of the reason he pushed you away initially was the age difference for reasons I've mentioned above. I would be very careful in your shoes to assume that you're actually ready for a relationship or to paint what you have with him as one. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Age consent is 16 and thank you for being honest. What is a kid doing on tinder???? Is there not age limits??? That's not the question so if you're not gonna answer it don't bother.
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Im 16 and im dating a 19 year old. do you think thats ok?
She's in a very different part of her life than you are, and no matter how nice a guy you are, there's a power imbalance in the relationship. Her parents are likely to be uncomfortable with it, which will make her life more difficult and may make her tend to be more attached to you than she would otherwise be, because she sees you as "forbidden fruit".
If you really like this girl, be her friend for the next two years, and then revisit the subject of romance when she's Go for it - I've known 21 year olds that were less mature than some 16 year olds and vice-versa. Just don't forget that you're in different phases of your life right now. You're both pretty young, but she, in particular, is still developing a sense of identity. Be aware that she may change over time, especially when she hits college.
Oh, and no sex until she's 18 - especially in the South, things can get really ugly for you if something goes awry. Are they distrustful of you?
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Is the girl going to have to lie to them in order to see you? If so, you could be creating problems for her that she'll regret when she's older. But if her parents are okay with it, then proceed. Is it an overall bad situation? You don't really give us enough information to be sure, but maybe, possibly, yeah, kind of.
How would you feel about your sixteen-year-old daughter or sister, if daughter's too much of a stretch hanging out with some nineteen-year-old dude who says things like "I'm not saying I'm going to go out and try and sleep with her or anything"?
Can a 16 year old and a 19 year old be in a successful relationship ?
I don't think we can definitely say there is a power imbalance just by looking at their ages. For all we know l3luer could be a dork with low self esteem, and the 16 yr old could be the queen-bee hot chick from her high school, and the power relationship is reversed.
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And there isn't something magical that happens to a girl's maturity level at her 18th birthday. Besides, by then, she'll be starting college and he'll be working, most likely, and they'll still be at different lifestages. Age-wise, i don't think it's a problem, as long as it feels like a relationship of equals. If it feels creepy to you, if it feels like you're talking to someone younger than you, or it feels like you're dealing with a child, relative to the people you normally talk to, then that is your answer re: I can't imagine that anything other than the most draconian legal system would find a relationship between people 3 years apart a problem.
Further to that I remember reading this point in a similar thread here, so this is not an original comment , things can go really awry if you break up and she decides to get revenge by telling people you did have sex.
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No 16 year old girl is worth potential statutory rape charges hanging over your head. There are some pretty annoying laws in the US, you've got my sympathy, but I wouldn't touch this kind of situation with a ten foot barge pole if I were you. It would be totally different if you were both a few years older, or if your genders I am presuming you're a hetero male were reversed.
I live in Georgia. My daughter is Yes, you would be putting yourself in a bad situation, never mind any legal problems. Where I live not GA you could be forced to register as a sex offender every place you go for the rest of your life. I have a 16 year-old-daughter, and yes, it would be bad. If you really care for you, you can wait. Junior year of high school? I didn't turn 16 until senior year of high school.
It was not uncommon to have friends a few years older, especially when we started going to local college campuses for frat parties. I would not say it is the most common of situations to be in, but this is incredibly subjective. No offense, but the 19 year olds I knew who would date or rather sleep with 16 year olds were not the most mature people, on either end. It is regarded as rather trashy, immature. That would be her , not you. I assume that both of you are in GA? If not, there could be some problems.
There is a new law passed just a few years ago that makes it illegal to have sexual conversations with teenagers over the internet. It was championed by Mark Foley, if you can believe that. I don't think it applies to phone calls. Even if she's above the age of consent in both states, you would still be violating this federal law, from what I understand.
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I don't see a moral problem with it, and if you knew eachother locally, you probably wouldn't have any problems, but it's because it's on "teh scary internet" it could be to have any kind of sexual discussion with her until she turns Also consider that she not be telling the truth about her age. Let me put it to you this way. I was a 16 year old who dated a 19 year old. I don't recommend it. I don't know the particular laws of your state, but I don't think an age gap like that is creepy at all.
I think you just need to remember that even though you might be willing to sleep with her, she might not be at that stage of thinking yet. It's three years difference. And legal double check your legal research. If things go well, fine. Don't worry about what all the prudes in here are saying, though. My parents are 7 years apart, for goodness sake. It's a "bad idea", but you're going to do it no matter what. You're right, there's no way to know for sure the maturity level of each of the people involved, nor can I predict with certainty that this will turn out badly.
But in general, it tends to be the case that 19 year olds with their unrestricted drivers' licenses and lack of curfews and independence are attractive to 16 year olds because of the differences between them and because they seem exciting and mature, and that creates power differentials in many relationships. My advice would be to avoid such relationships. And if you think you're the exception to all of this and that your relationship is a good idea, tread carefully. There's two conversations here. CAN you date a 16 year old when you're 19 in the state of georgia? Yes, but you can't have sex outside of a marriage in Georgia or it's a state offense, and you can't talk dirty over the internet or it's a federal offense.
Well, it depends on who you are and who she is -- in your own heads, I mean. There's a lot of maturing and growing up that you both have left to do. If you intend this to last a while, you're going to be going through stages of your life with three years separation -- which is not a huge amount if you're in college or later, but realize that you'll be a senior when she's a freshman in college So when she's still figuring out how to live on a campus, you may not be able to be sympathetic , and you'll already be out of college and working by the time she's turned 21 that means that you won't be able to go into a bar with her in most states for the next five years There's also some seriously drastic, from a guy's point of view, emotional changes that girls go through in the late teenage years -- ex: That's tough to deal with because you liked her the way she was under her family's roof, and it's tough to figure out what happened to turn that sweet girl you've been going with for the past two years into a pierced and tattooed party animal.
Speaking from personal experience here.